Open Letter to all the girls in the world

Dear Beautiful,

This letter is to all of the girls everywhere in the world but also to each of you individually. You are beautiful. You Are do not brush it off. I pray for you every day and I want to share with you these helpful and encouraging things. These are life “lessons” I hope to teach all women and girls.

You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are beautiful from the hair on your head to the bottom of your feet. I want to tell you that everyone has a part or many parts of themselves that they do not like or wish they could change. Except them, it is part of what makes you an individual. For example, I have several scars on my legs from my crazy childhood one that is about six inches long, also, I have parts of my teeth that are discolored these are things that I wish I could change when I look at them but, when I look at myself as a whole I know they are meant to be there because they are part of who I am. The same goes for you if it is scarred, your height, your weight, your glasses, braces whatever. It is part of who you are, accept it and move on because you are beautiful.

Remember who and whose you are. You are a child of God, you are strong, beautiful, courageous, you are loved and you are a child of the Creator Of The Universe! remember who and whose you are.

Do not compare yourself to others! not only does it make you feel down or gives you a big head it is judging you and those around you. It is so not fair to compare yourself to another person though you may both be people you are both different unique individuals all of your own, completely different works of art. Comparing two people is like comparing spaghetti and alfredo they are both food they are both Italian pasta. But one has meat the other has cheesed. Both taste good but they are just different.

Know who you are before you get a boyfriend. If you do not know who you are truly then you may be influenced negatively by your partner even if you think or know that they are a good person or if you “love” each other, if you do not know who you are than it will impact you negatively.

Never let anyone treat you less than fabulous especially guys. You are fabulous and if anyone treats you otherwise then walk away do not make excuses, most likely they are not making excuses for themselves. If anyone treats you less than you deserve than they are not worth it. At all!

Never let someone make you think you are less than you are. EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER! You are amazing and you need to make sure you speak life into others and that they speak life to you as well because you are beyond this world and those who think otherwise are foolish and do not know what they are talking about!

Something girls tell themselves is that “I have to have a husband or a boyfriend to be happy” this is a big fat lie! Those who wait on the Lord always get His best. Those who insist on getting what they want often end up with heartache. Happiness is not found in (or out of) marriage. God has promised to provide everything you need. If He will receive more glory by you being married, then He will provide a husband for you.

There is power in prayer and peace in the name of Jesus. A lie that most people believe is that “God will not give you more than you can handle” that is a big fat lie! God will give you more than you can handle ALONE because it is sometimes when you can not go on and you are broken down hopeless and falling that you can get down on your knees look to the lord and pray for the Lord to give you the strength and peace to move on and keep going. God will and does give you more than you can handle ALONE but nothing is impossible for you to handle with the Lord at your side!

When you press the SEND button or the POST button on anything, whatever you put is available for anyone and everyone to access any time. your social media accounts will be seen by your family, friends, co workers, employers, professors, and anyone else. Social media is a great tool to connect with others but be cautious of what you put on it even if your account is private!

True beauty and confidence is better than any makeup!

Do make sure you surround yourself with those you find to be good influences. Be friendly to everyone but be friends with those who you can encourage each other in times of need and celebrate each other in times of joy. You are who you surround yourself with.

Take time for yourself, your body is a temple so take the time to make sure you are healthy physically emotionally and spiritually. Find a purpose that is meaningful. Have good hygiene shower daily, dress modestly.

Have self-respect. Never send pictures of yourself, sell yourself, or through yourself at someone. You are beautiful and you are yours, not Bobby’s next girl. The key word is Next girl. All boys have the same desires, they may have more self-control or hide it better but it is their natural instinct.

There is a difference between a “Christian Guy” and a “Godly Man”. You deserve a “Godly Man”. Make your boy be a gentleman and be a lady yourself. Just because a boy holds a door out for you does not mean he is sexist, it means he was raised up to respect all people and treat women with respect! You, my friend, must do the same, except his gestures kindly and be a lady.

Here is another lie women and girls believe A career outside the home is more valuable and fulfilling than being a wife and mother. THis is not true at all a career outside the home is valuable but being a wife and a mother is also a full time job and is so fulfilling. In the will of God, there is no higher, holier calling than to be a wife and mother. God uniquely designed the woman to be a bearer and nurturer of life.

Be a lady. Do not go flaunting yourself here and there. You need to learn to be a lady. as Coco Chanel used to say “there are two things a woman needs that is to be classy and fabulous then all else will play out as it should be”. She is so right! Classy is never old fashioned or out of style ever just like jeans and tee shirt will never go out of style.

Most of all Love yourself! REMEMBER WHOSE AND WHO YOU ARE!! Be confident! and Love Life Live Freely yet make decisions based on the outcome. Be cautious not Skeptical. Be Classy and Kind. Have Fun. Stay Pure! Finally, keep this letter and read it when you need it. Everything in it is 100% true. I hope you have a good day. God bless you.

From one girl to another,

Have a good day!